I scan online dating profiles all the time. What I keep noticing is that a lot of single men and women don’t ask for much.
Do these sound familiar: “looking for a good woman”, “looking for an honest man”?
Being a good person and being honest are basics. These are qualities everyone should have and should expect from others. I point these two out as examples that reflect my general observation – people need to raise their standards. In fact, they need to raise their own self-worth by expecting more for themselves.
A lot of the qualities people look for are not much more than just basic decency. Decency is good but it’s not good enough.
In addition, not having those basics should be deal breakers. My suggestion is that you take a closer look at what qualities you have, as well as what you expect from yourself, then make sure that others measure up to what you have to offer.
